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My Mother’s Cancer

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It’s back. And it’s in her bone.

My mother’s cancer is back and it’s in a bone near her spine. The most important person in my life has a cancerous tumor and I just don’t know what to say, let alone do.

I want to cry and I want to scream and I want to punch something and eat a lot of ice cream really badly all the same time. Words seem completely inappropriate right now.

I wish I had more details, but I don’t. I wish my mom didn’t have metastatic cancer, but she does.

Your prayers would be so appreciated for this phenomenal human being I am lucky enough to call my mother.

I know this is still a food blog and not a place for me to cry publicly, so I will try to get cookies to you soon as possible. But honestly, I just don’t know when that will be. It seems we really don’t know very much.
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  2. Kelly, stay strong! Tough times don't last but tough people do. I'm sure your mama will pull through and beat cancer. Fighters always FIGHT! I'll be praying for her. God bless! Remember, be strong!
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  4. Kelly, you are an amazing girl, and I really hope everything will be okay. Don't worry about getting cookies to us. Just take care of your mom and your family for now, and don't feel like you have any obligations to us. Love you and I wish your family the best. XOXO
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  6. God Bless You and Your mother. My own grandmother has had breast cancer twice, and she's survived both times. It was hard, but she's a strong woman. Kelly, anyone who has you as daughter, doesn't need to be blessed Best wishes to all of you! Stay Strong! Your mother will pull through.
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  7. Hi Kelly, I've been reading your blog for a while now and I can't express how thankful I am for all the great recipes you post. I will definitely be praying for your mom. My dad was diagnosed with cancer five years ago (he's in remission now) so I know from experience how painful it can be. My family's cancer journey taught me how we little control we have over our own lives, and that sometimes all we can do is trust God. There is so much power in God's name; power to heal, power to comfort, and power to give us strength when we have absolutely nothing left. Jeremiah 30:17, "I will restore health unto you saith the Lord". Thank you for being such a blessing!
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  9. I am so sorry to hear this. I know exactly what you're going through and it's painful to think about. In retrospect, the most important thing you can do is be there and spend as much quality time with her as you can. It's healing for both of you and it's taking full advantage of the moment. None of us are promised more than that. Sending you strength girl. hugs C
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  10. How awful for both your and your mum, it's time to lean on those closest to you, they will get you through this and your own inner strength will appear. Wishing you and your family all the best.
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  12. Kelly This is the time to consider natural remedies. Keep several things in mind. Cancer cells love sugar and a low oxygen environment and acidity. Having said that there are simple things she can do to shift the balance back in her favor. Have her : Eat only organic fruits, vegetables and meat. Drink ph Balanced water...by adding the juice of fresh lemon to water it alkalizes the body Make her at least one "green drink" per day with organic produce and ph balanced water so she can drink her veggies...it will be better absorbed by the body that way There is a book that you can order about adding food grade hydrogen peroxide drops...there's a recipe....to flood the body with oxygen thereby killing cancer cells. I gave my book away but you can find out about it by contacting Cancer Defeated website ....or you canorder online The book is called The One Minute Cure by Alison Cavanaugh Don't give up !!!! Etna
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  14. I'm sitting here waiting for 'healthy banana bread' to come out of the oven; it's becoming a weekly tradtition in our family as it a) uses up the old gnarly bananas on the counter b) is vegan! c) is banana-y enough to satisfy the craving but not too banana-y that it turns to goo in your mouth or in the fridge, which is a real turn off for mild banana afficienados like myself and d) is 100% kid approved, even by the insanely picky one who won't eat real bananas, but begs for 'healthy banana bread' in her lunch. But while I'm waiting, I'm sitting here and re-reading your latest post. I lost my mother to metastatic cancer when I was 22. It was such a diifficult time and my heart aches for you, knowing that feeling, of being the daughter and watching and waiting. I pray that your family's story has a different ending than ours did. However, if I could offer one small word of advice: there are lots of people around to worry about the cancer but very few who are in the privileged position that you are to be in tune to her life, living and maximizing the quality available in each day. There were times that I got so caught up emotionally with the cancer and the unimaginable range of futures it brought, that I glossed over the present because it was too difficult to deal with emotionally. Live each day. it is all any of us can do, regardless of the circumstances. It might not be my place to write this, but know there are lots of warm thoughts and wishes for health and peace coming your direction. All the best to you and your family and thank you for the banana bread!
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  15. I don't know very much about praying and stuff but I really hope your mom is ok. I'm in high school too and jeez you are so great to be able to handle all this ilysm and I wish you the best ps my mom always makes me green juice and bone broth when I'm sick so idk (I know bone broth isn't vegetarian but the actual bone marrow gelatin is really healthy even if the meat part is up for debate)
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  16. Hi love, I've already started praying! Thousands of us are here for you, including the Lord and me. This is short because words can't express pain like yours, or soothe it, but love can get to where you hurt. I love you sweetie, Cath
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  17. I am so sorry to hear this. Please take all the time you need before you put any recipes here. We do not need them. Your mom needs you now. Reach out here & we will help you with whatever you need. Strength & healing thoughts being sent your way.
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  18. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your mom and your entire family. I can't say I understand what you are going through but know it's got to be the most difficult thing you've ever faced. Be there for her and live every day to the fullest!! No need for cookies. Spend time with your mama.
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  19. Hi kelly, I just wanted to let you know I always like checking your food blog to see what yummies you've been up to lately. I miss you! Everything you've done here is incredible and I hope I get to cook up a storm with you someday! I love you a ton <3 Love, Julie p.s. happy pumpkin season ;)
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  21. kelly, oh...i am so sorry. this is me sending tons of hugs, tons of love, and several truckloads of prayers. STAY STRONG MY BESTEST ONLINE FRIEND. i know you can do this. you have survived accidental banana bread biscotti! you have survived coconut bacon. you can do this. i love you tons, and i willl FOREVER be here for you to scream and cry at. you can even punch me if you wish, and i will eat ice cream with you. you are not alone in this, and i want you to know that, alright? i love you kelly. god bless your amazing mother and amazing you.
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  24. I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. Have you ever heard of using vitamin B17 for cancer prevention/treatment? My friend's dad was a scientist and researcher and when his wife was diagnosed with cancer, he researched the B17 treatment and decided to have her try it. His wife's cancer went away and she lived many more years. He and his daughter also used B17 as prevention. He lived till his 90's! B17 can be found in the nuts inside apricot pits as well as in apple seeds. You can also purchase supplements, but they can be hard to find. But here's the deal with B17: there is much controversy due to myths about cyanide poisoning. That's why doctors in the US don't use it. However, Contreras hospital in Mexico and Harold Manner Hospital have been able to successfully cure over 100,000 cancer patients in the last 30 years. There is plenty of information on the web as well as books on this topic, so I'd encourage you to check it out. I wish the best for your mom!
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  25. Kelly, I'm so sorry, I don't even know what to say. I'm sending positive thoughts to you and your mother right now. Call me anytime and I will deliver hugs <3
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  28. So sorry to hear about your mum. Concentrate on the important things now , forget about the blog for the time being and stay string for your mum. Thinking of you and praying to god to give you all stength to cope with these difficult times xxx
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  29. Oh my goodness, Kelli, I'm so sorry. This is so scary. I know my words can't really help, but my prayers can. Prayers for your mother and for you, to find peace despite the turmoil.
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  30. Hi Kelly, You and your Mom are in my prayers. You know that old saying that when the going gets tough......the tough get going and you both will be strong for each other. Hugs and prayers and please tell your Mom that lots of people will have her in their prayers - and you too.
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  33. I'm so sorry to hear that. Please know that all of your readers are sending thoughts and prayers and no one would expect you to keep up the blog during tough times. Stay strong and I hope for the best for you and your family.
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  34. I came across your blog today after searching for paleo flatbread. At 47 I’d decided to eat healthier. I read about you and your mum and was enjoying reading your recipes when I came across this post. Although being a person who never leaves comments I found myself compelled to do so. If the future seems overwhelming right now, remember that it comes one day at a time and no matter how dark the moment, love and hope exist together. God Bless. Andrew (UK)
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  35. So sorry to hear this, Kelly! Your mom is lucky to have such a caring daughter & I'm sure she is grateful to have your love & support. I will keep you both in my prayers. To heck with recipes, just enjoy each other's company.
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  36. I will pray for your mother and for you. I am so sorry to hear the news! If she can, eat the mushrooms daily. I just boil them and add onions and garlic. It would be a good healing food. Do not lose faith. In the middle of the night, I saw this show on Santa Cruz community TV. The chef is Rebecca Katz and she had recipes for cancer patients who had trouble eating. I had a heart patient that I was caring for. Her foods got him to eat again. She is just rebeccakatz.com. My prayers are with you and your mom. God bless you two always.... Janice
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  39. Kelly, you're amazing and I can bet that your mom who has raised you to be so bright is just as amazing! Always believe in yourself and that you and your mom can overcome anything! We are on your side, sending positive thoughts and prayers your way! God bless you and your family!
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  40. I'm Jewish, and the way a Jew prays for someone, they say the name of the patient and then add "bas _____" (which is 'daughter of _____' in Hebrew). Can you respond to this with your mom's name and your grandmother's name? If not, I can say "Eim shel Kelly" (which is 'mother of Kelly' in Hebrew). My grandmother had breast cancer and survived it. I'm thirteen now, and the cancer is completely gone and she is back to normal. If your mom is anything like you, she's a strong, tough woman. Refuah sheleimah (a wish for a Full Recovery), Devorah
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  41. Dear Kelly, Your blog is phenomenal and you are so talented beyond words. I love the connections you make between your love of family and good, healthy food. I am not sure if you have or not, but researching a holistic diet of pure cancer-fighting foods, earthing (http://thenaturalmedicalhealthwell.com/earthing-heaven/earthing-aka-grounding-products-earthing-basics/), and a lot of green chlorophyll and high nutrient superfoods are known to be a powerful way to help the body fight and heal itself. Also the following article may be very helpful to you and your mom: http://www.mercola.com/article/cancer/cancer_options.htm. I hope this information can be of help. Also remember that love is a most powerful form of medicine and the fact that your mom has your love in of itself is a blessing that will help her fight through. All the love and thoughts in the world to you! <3
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  43. Kelly, I am so so sorry. Both my parents were diagnosed with cancer at the same time a few years back. Both are okay now but just wanted to let you know I understand and if you ever need someone to talk to feel free to send me an email. Thinking of you <3
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  45. Dear Kelly: 20 yrs ago my husband had prostate cancer, surgery & radiation, 4 yrs ago he was diagnosed with lung cancer & had surgery. He refused radiation & chemo & they watched him 2 yrs. then told him he had stage 4 bone & lung cancer, oh yes, & he had 6 months to 12 mo. to live. Well, I changed his diet-drastically, He was on Hospice two years & they had to let him go. He wasn't dying fast enough. Now he mows, in the Texas sun, he weed-eats & he drives. We are following your column because now we are no-grain Paleo foodies. Love your enthusiasium. I am praying for you & your Mom.+
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  46. Oh my gosh Kelly.. I just saw this. I had no idea about this when I left that comment on your about me page. I'm so sorry about that. I'm sure your mom will make it through. I agree with the other commenter about natural therapies and a specific diet. Have you heard of this young lady called Belle Gibson? She is known as @healing_belle on Instagram and is the owner of The Whole Pantry App. She was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer a few years ago and she changed her diet and she's doing just fine now! She might be able to provide you with more information on natural remedies/ diet etc. Kelly I'm sure your mom will be okay. I'm not going to tell you to stay strong because I know the pressure those two little words can put on a person. It's okay to cry. it's okay to not know what to do. It's okay not to be strong. But only for a little bit. In the end everything will be okay. Stay positive. God bless you and your mother. Big hugs xxx
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  47. Hi Kelly, Thanks for sharing about your Mom's cancer. It is so wonderful to hear about the positive, strong relationship you have with her. My father had cancer, and I think I know the hopeless feeling you have. I pray she is doing well and that you are both able to receive God's love and peace in a new way as you go through this. Praying for you both... Thanks for your awesome blog/website!
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  48. Kelly, I'm terribly sorry to hear about your Mother, I'm sure you are just the best supporter there can be and I'm sure she just bursts with pride over you. I don't know what state you live in but you might want to take a quick amble on over to Youtube and look up "cannabis oil - cancer" Also, a channel called Watermelon "Baking a Fool of Myself" gives excellent recipes for those who need relief but don't want to be zombified by heavy chemical opiates. Also, cancer patients need to eat. Hey, maybe you could feature some recipes with a *special* ingredient :) Good luck you guys, Enflagrante
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  52. I just discovered your wonderful site and so far have tried 3 of your recipes that have really helped me on my low carb lifestyle. You are so creative and smart! Then I read this and it broke my heart. I am so sorry. I'm the worst at this, so I will offer lots of prayers (for real) for you and your mother and many virtual hugs.
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